Teacher passing along prejudice

Yesterday, a friend told me a story, one that I will share with no names to keep their privacy, but one I have to share.

His 5 year old daughter attends school somewhere in London. Last week she came home and told his parents that her teacher was going to leave the school. She explained to the boys and girls in her classroom that she was now engaged to be married and therefore she was done with work, as her future husband could provide for her and this was what women did. My friend was outraged. Is this even allowed?

Trying to persuade his daughter that she could do whatever she wanted in her life and women did not at all have to stay home, he was only more discouraged by the fact she was not proud of the fact that her mother and grandmother worked. After all, all other dads were good to allow the mums to spend time with their children and pick them up from school. Why would she care if only her mum worked - that did not look like a goid thing.

Really? #leanin #women

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